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March 2, 2010
“We are living in a time when it seems as if sex is used to sell everything. From laundry detergent to pancakes, from make-up to hair dye, sex sells. We are inundated with it.”
I was doing a seminar on Sex, Love, and Marriage. During a break a well-dressed, pretty but nervous woman came up to [...]
February 16, 2010
At one a.m. I was editing chapters of a book that I have written and re-written in hopes that the agent who asked to see it could get it published. In seven hours I had to leave for an early morning office meeting and hoped that I wouldn’t slip into a nod and drift off [...]
February 15, 2010
Jesus was a Jew. He spoke the Jewish language, lived the Jewish life, and was very active in the Jewish community. Jesus studied and learned the Old Testament in His growing years, as well as celebrated the Jewish feasts and festivals. It makes sense that Jesus would use the culture, language, and traditions [...]
February 13, 2010
What do you think of Body Piercing, Tattoos, and Branding?
We welcome your thoughts and comments.
February 8, 2010
Chapter 7 – Dealing with Schools
For most of us dealing with the teachers and administration at our child’s school can be a difficult process. Many of us approach this important task with needless trepidation or false conceptions.
We were once students ourselves and may have built up a habit of obeying or even expecting punishment or [...]
December 20, 2009
My daughter Elizabeth and I attended an open house at the college she decided to attend. The dean spoke to the students and posed this riddle to them. “Five frogs are sitting on a log. Four decide to jump off. Question: How many are left?”
We looked at each other thinking – duh – that’s pretty obvious, there’s only one left – but here is what he [...]
December 11, 2009
Posted by AngelaPoseyArnold in: Biography & Memoir, Education, Faith, Family, Freedom, History, Inspiration & Motivation, Life Experiences, Lifestyle, Non-Fiction, Personal Experiences, Relationships, Religion, Short Stories, Social Aspects, Social Issues, Spirituality, Women's Perspective
Christmas 1947-Alabama (Not so much unlike Christmas 2009–Alabama—same heart–same spirit)
By Angela Posey-Arnold
“What are you getting for Christmas this year, Jimmy? I think I’m getting a record player. I picked one out at Elmore’s.” Bonnie said to her friend and classmate at lunch.
Jimmy swallowed the last bite of apple, “A record player? That will be neat. [...]
December 10, 2009
Looking for something to help wind down at the end of a hard day clogging your arteries with Monster Pies? How about the McNuggetini? This festive drink (?) consists of a chocolate milkshake mixed with vodka, rimmed with barbecue sauce, and garnished with half a chicken nugget. “Hey bar-keep! Gimme a double will [...]
December 2, 2009
This time last year I was swimming in Christmas presents that I had purchased for my family and a few friends. I hadn’t spent that much since I am a careful shopper but I had more funds to do as I pleased. This year there is less money to spend all around and I am [...]
November 19, 2009
Like most artists I would prefer making a living from my art. For the majority of us that never happens and we have to make do with professions outside of the creative. Sometimes we get lucky and land a job we enjoy. Sometimes we land [...]
November 16, 2009
As a college student eager to explore the world outside the South I spent many winter breaks in New York City. My first was with my roommate Kaye who lived in Queens. I got to see a few of the sights and only visited Harlem once when we went to [...]
October 21, 2009
Long before today, the first year anniversary of my father’s death, I contemplated what happens when we die. My thoughts weren’t just about going to the light or about resting in peace. I wondered how you prepare yourself when you know your time has come.
When [...]
October 20, 2009
The music came from a place I couldn’t see. Had I been a contestant on that old show “Name That Tune” I would have been a winner in less than five notes. A trumpet somewhere on the upper Westside of Manhattan was beautifully playing “My One and Only Love”. It [...]
October 13, 2009
My first day of Catholic high school I met Mary and Jessica (names changed) and we became fast friends. They were very religious girls who had attended the other all black Catholic grade school in Atlanta all the way across town. Each morning we met on the bus and walked together, our books clinched to [...]
October 11, 2009
Posted by maryepopkin in: Attitude, Habit Change, Inspiration & Motivation, Life Experiences, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Motivation, Non-Fiction, Opinion, Personal Experiences, Self-Help, Spirituality, Uncategorized, Wellness
HOW I LEARNED THE PHILOSOPHY THAT LIFE IS A SERIES OF MOMENTS IN TIME.
Many years ago when I was struggling with the death and dying of my Dad our Family was blessed with a priest who would come to visit us often. Father York, a Catholic Priest, and my Dad was close friends [...]
October 7, 2009
Posted by TimKellis in: Advice, Book Marketing Online, Book Review, Books, Communications, Current Events, Education, Family, General Topics, Health & Fitness, Inspiration & Motivation, Lifestyle, Marriage, Men's Issues, Mental Health, Motivation, Non-Fiction, Philosophical Genres, Relationships, Self-Help, Social Aspects, Social Issues, Spirituality, The Media, The Pundit's Corner, The Writer's Corner, Wellness
Carl Jung
Now here is another brain teaser for your therapist, or should I say mind teaser, the notion of curing someone with depression. Sadly, this is one of the most common causes of problems in marriages, and while we look for help from the professionals they take advantage of that vulnerability with a platform [...]
September 29, 2009
Broken down to the most basic component – your life is simply a series of moments. Each one is precious. Some may be more exciting or memorable than others, but each one is important and brings you to the next…and the next. Each is a gift, a present, crafted specifically for you and comes directly from the hand of God! If some famous person gave you a valuable gift of some kind, you’d protect, admire and appreciate it constantly. How much more should we do that with today’s [...]
September 23, 2009
The negative effects environmental noise has on your health including hearing loss, increased risk of heart disease, high blood pressure and increased appetite leading to weight gain are no secret. What I want to focus on today is quieting the inner noise, which is just as destructive to true health. “Internal noise” or the constant stream of self-talk that runs through your mind can greatly impact your health as [...]
September 23, 2009
Much like reframing an old picture can give it new life, so can reframing the situations that cause us stress. According to Dr. Don Colbert, author of The Seven Pillars of Health, the term “reframing” means learning to see the past, present and future in a positive light. [...]
September 21, 2009
Did you know, prayer is the most basic mind-body therapy known to man? In fact, even though some experts are only realizing how important your spirit is to your physical health now, Hippocrates, the father of medicine, believed that the moral and spiritual aspects of a person’s life affected their health. [...]
September 21, 2009
You take between 18 and 26,000 breaths every day! You require 88 lbs. of oxygen daily – it is the most critical chemical in your body. Your brain alone requires 25% of the oxygen you take in. Breathing is the only bodily function which can be done either consciously or unconsciously. The average person uses only twenty percent of their lung capacity. Increasing oxygen content in all the cells of the body can produce dramatic changes in general health and mood. [...]
September 21, 2009
We are so used to being surrounded by sound some of us cannot stand to be without some type of noise – whether it’s the television or radio in the background, a CD or static and nature sounds from a “white noise” machine. If you pay attention, you’ll find there are very few (if any) places where you escape intentional sound – stores, doctor/dentist offices, restaurants, gas stations, public rest rooms – they all seem to have music piped in. [...]
September 18, 2009
Posted by TimKellis in: Advice, Book Marketing Online, Books, Communications, Current Events, Education, Family, General Topics, Habit Change, Health & Fitness, Inspiration & Motivation, Life Experiences, Lifestyle, Marriage, Men's Issues, Mental Health, Non-Fiction, Personal Experiences, Philosophical Genres, Relationships, Self-Help, Social Issues, The Media, The Pundit's Corner, The Writer's Corner, Wellness, Women's Perspective
Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage
If you would like to get your therapist’s head spinning ask him or her what it means to be cured and watch as your therapist struggles to answer that question. The unfortunate reality is the psychology industry, with its biological foundation, has not yet defined what it means [...]
September 16, 2009
Due to the long lifespan of people and the rigors of the diet, studies of calorie restriction in humans are ongoing and have yet to show that people live longer. Nonetheless, thousands of individuals now follow calorie restriction diets, hoping to discover what Ponce de Leon did [...]
September 15, 2009
Posted by cmusico in: Advice, Attitude, Current Events, Diet, Economic Crisis, Economics, Habit Change, Health & Fitness, Lifestyle, Motivation, Nutrition, Recovery, The Economy
I have a confession to make: I really do enjoy watching television. So imagine my happiness that NBC’s The Biggest Loser is premiering another season tonight at 8 p.m. EDT. Say what you will about the show — that it exploits overweight people, etc. — but I choose to look at it more optimistically. Essentially, [...]
September 13, 2009
Irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) is a group of symptoms indicating a malfunction of the bowel. Unlike celiac disease discussed in last week’s email, this is not an autoimmune “disease.” It is a “syndrome” which means a group of symptoms, the most common of which are cramping, abdominal swelling, discomfort or pain, spastic contractions of the colon, bloating, gas, whitish mucus in the stool, diarrhea, and/or constipation. [...]
September 13, 2009
Celiac disease is one of the most common chronic health disorders in the western world. It is also one of the most under and mis-diagnosed. Until recently, medical schools taught that celiac disease was relatively rare and only affected about 1 in 2,500 people. Recent studies and advances in diagnosis show that at least 3 [...]
September 13, 2009
While the title of this article is a play on the first few words of an old Tony Orlando song, Candida is no laughing matter. Candida albicans is a common, fungal form of yeast that lives in a moist, warm environment. It’s believed that Candida is present in at least 90% of people. It grows most commonly on the mucus membranes of the gastrointestinal and genitourinary tracts in our bodies. However, it can grow almost anywhere in your body and cause [...]
September 13, 2009
The Roaming Eyes
Did you ever have a conversation with someone who doesn’t look you in the eye? Someone whose eyes is focused somewhere else, and not on you to whom he or she is talking to. The eyes look around, looking at other people, at the things behind you, looking at who is coming and [...]
September 12, 2009
Posted by AngelaPoseyArnold in: Advice, Current Events, Economic Crisis, Family, Inspiration & Motivation, Lifestyle, Relationships, Religion, Self-Help, Short Stories, Social Issues, Spirituality
Fear, Fret and Faint
By Angela Posey-Arnold
Frank Parker is under attack, literally. Nothing in his twenty five years as a news reporter has prepared him for this. An all out fear assault explodes every morning as he arrives to the local radio station to report the news. He cannot find an escape as bad news pours [...]
September 10, 2009
To be honest most mornings I want to throw my husband out of the window. He comes to bed late having spent the early hours on the computer with African and Asian companies, he snores like a train in need of engine work and he is retired. I wake and look over at him wanting [...]
September 9, 2009
Posted by TimKellis in: Advice, Books, Communications, Education, Family, General Topics, Inspiration & Motivation, Lifestyle, Marriage, Men's Issues, Mental Health, Morality, Non-Fiction, Philosophical Genres, Relationships, Self-Help, Sex, Social Issues, The Media, The Pundit's Corner, The Writer's Corner, Women's Perspective
International Professional Surrogate Association
I am sorry to be so hard on the psychology industry but some of their practices done in the name of “science” bely belief, and I have discovered another concept ridiculous to the point of being hilarious.
Before I go into that concept I do want to discuss what had been my [...]
September 9, 2009
Terror does not always live in a vacuum. Ask any woman who lives in Harlem these days since the Hamilton Heights Rapist struck for the fourth time in less than six weeks. This time to add to the consternation this brazen criminal raped a woman on the seventh floor of an apartment building. That means someone had [...]
September 6, 2009
Posted by Tina Rae Collins in: Attitude, Cancer, Creative Writing, Family, General Topics, Healthcare, Inspiration & Motivation, Lifestyle, Marriage, Mental Health, Motivation, Poetry, Relationships, Self-Help, Spirituality, Wellness, Women's Perspective
When time stands still
All you can do is ponder,
And wonder how you got to where you are.
Could you have foreseen it?
Could you have prevented it?
Will you look back in sorrow
Or consider it a blessing?
You find no answers
But only long for the day
When time resumes.
September 5, 2009
Posted by AngelaPoseyArnold in: Attitude, Family, Freedom, General Topics, Inspiration & Motivation, Lifestyle, Morality, Recovery, Relationships, Religion, Self-Help, Spirituality
Wounded in battle and weathered by storms [...]
September 3, 2009
Posted by Prentiss Gray in: Attitude, Communications, Diet, Entertainment, Freelance Author, Global Warming, Health & Fitness, Humor, Lifestyle, Marketing, Motivation, Non-Fiction, Sociology, Television, The Media, Uncategorized
Is it a problem that negative journalism is read, viewed, discussed more than positive reporting? Well, more viewers means more money and as a race, it would seem that we are more attracted to the negative than the positive.
Just a few nights in front of the TV around any election will demonstrate to the viewer [...]
September 1, 2009
Posted by Antonio de la Vega in: Cancer, Education, Health & Fitness, Healthcare, Latino & Hispanic, Lifestyle, Medical, Mexico, Native American, Nature/Wildlife, Nutrition, Religion, Self-Help, Sex, Social Aspects, Social Classes, Social Issues, Sociology
Recientemente la Universidad Autónoma de México (U.N.A.M.) presentó el resultado de un esfuerzo monumental, consistente en la construcción de una enciclopedia multimedia especializada en la medicina tradicional [...]
August 28, 2009
Posted by TimKellis in: Accountability, Advice, Books, Communications, Family, General Topics, Inspiration & Motivation, Internet Advice, Interview, Lifestyle, Marriage, Men's Issues, Mental Health, Motivation, Non-Fiction, Philosophical Genres, Relationships, Self-Help, Social Issues, The Media, The Pundit's Corner, The Writer's Corner
Tim Kellis, author of "Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage"
I’m half way through my two month blog tour on relationships. The stops have generally been both interactive and productive. I’ve particularly like the stops where the topics were questions related to relationships.
I wanted to share one in particular, at the Long Relationships blog. [...]
August 27, 2009
I spoke to my Aunt Ruthie recently. She just moved for the third or fourth time since my Theo Costa (Uncle Gus in Greek) passed away seven years ago. When I think about Aunt Ruthie a collage of memories comes to mind – she’s always been a very soft-spoken Southern [...]
August 26, 2009
How often do people do things thinking they are doing something good, healthy, useful, and end up with just the opposite effect? Often, the effect is opposite to what we want because mainstream media has not been very forthcoming, for the sake of the corporations supporting it, who would prefer to keep the truth silent.
“Opposites [...]
August 20, 2009
Have you been feeling a little down on yourself lately? Like “ordinary” just doesn’t even begin to describe how you see yourself? Feeling like you just are not doing anything well enough? I think we all feel that way at times. At least I will admit I do. I want to share something with you [...]
August 20, 2009
Another protocol you can try is called “food sequencing.” The basic premise of this practice is to “layer” your meal by eating all of each food by itself and then moving on to the next food, rather than taking a bite of this and then a bite of that. Therefore, the concept says if you eat five [...]
August 20, 2009
There are some strategies you can try that may seem a bit “unusual” that can jumpstart your digestive health. Here is a protocol you may consider trying. Keep in mind that this works for some people and is ineffective for others. It is not harmful, so if you choose, you can try it see if you find any improvement. The only way to find out what is right for you is to experiment: try it, pay close attention to your body’s response, keep track in your journal and assess the changes. [...]
August 17, 2009
Here are six simple suggestions you can easily include in your lifestyle to improve the balance of good bacteria to bad in your digestive [...]
August 17, 2009
The Standard American Diet (SAD), typically sugar- and junk food-rich, low in fiber and void of nutrients; overuse of drugs such as antibiotics, anti-inflammatory meds, and acid-blockers as well as sleep deprivation and chronic stress damage our ecosystem. [...]
August 12, 2009
Posted by AngelaPoseyArnold in: Advice, Current Events, Family, Foreign Affairs, Foreign Relations, Freedom, General Topics, Inspiration & Motivation, Lifestyle, Marriage, Relationships, Religion, Self-Help, Social Aspects, Social Issues, Spirituality, Uncategorized, Wellness
A Letter from Your Guardian Angel
Greetings to you, my charge, in the name of The Lord our God and Creator Who lovingly assigned me to you. I am always happy when God sends me to do something really important in your life. Great joy filled my soul last week when I intervened in the car [...]
August 11, 2009
One size NEVER fits all – especially when it comes to diets! If you do a search on Amazon.com of “diet books” you get over 22,000 results! You’d think one of those must be the one that will work for you. That’s possible, of course, but even if the diet works for you at the beginning, after a while, you will need to make adjustments for any number of reasons: you age, your stress level changes, your body adapts to your exercise program, you have trouble sleeping; you develop a food sensitivity and on and on.
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August 6, 2009
Much is said about the importance of cleaning up your diet, eliminating junk food, drinking enough water and taking the right supplements in order to help your body heal. And those are all very important things we must pay attention to. However, there is another facet to healing that is many times overlooked and that [...]
August 6, 2009
Abraham and Sarah of Bible fame never took vitamins and they were able to have a child when they were both well past child-bearing age – Abraham was 100 and Sarah was 90! In fact, Sarah had been barren as a young woman and unable to conceive. You can read about it in Genesis chapters [...]
August 6, 2009
Physically we know that heart health is critical. However, what I would like to focus on here is how central our heart is to every aspect of life. We consider the heart to be the core of our being, as in getting to the heart of a matter. We encourage others to speak and act from their heart or to follow or listen to their heart. [...]
July 27, 2009
Once you speak a word, it exists forever. The laws of physics tell us that energy in the universe is never lost. It is transformed from one state to another. Sound waves never disappear. Sound is an energetic disturbance that causes a movement of particles. Because space is a vacuum with no matter, sound is unable to “travel.” Think about the implications – if we had the right equipment, voices from the beginning of time could be [...]
July 19, 2009
We tend to do things “mindlessly” rather than “mindfully.” You know what I mean. You can sit down with a bag of cookies and before you even realize what has happened, you’ve inhaled half the bag and barely even tasted one of them. The most precious resource God has gifted us with is time and we value other things so much more highly and waste this most valuable commodity. We have a limited amount of time and number of days on this earth. Living each to the fullest is a way of thanking God and appreciating His grace and [...]
July 10, 2009
The high price of Jackson’s fame–do you really want to dance with this woman?
by Bill Hazelgrove
Fame is a fickle lover. She comes and goes and seldom cooperates and is rarely faithful. Even Madonna has become tarnished by this ghost after resorting to pornography when things were really low in the nineties and since becoming a [...]
July 9, 2009
What Makes Us Happy? Harvard Knows
By Jack B. Rochester
Does attending Harvard make one happier? Probably not. As reported in The Atlantic magazine cover story for June, “What Makes Us Happy,” [please try to forgive the insipid photo on the cover], a research study has been underway since 1937 to see how Harvard men [...]
July 9, 2009
Arthritis affects more than 30 million Americans, resulting in severe pain and disability. While osteoarthritis is the most common type, there are 100 other conditions, which affect joints, muscles, tendons, ligaments and cartilage. Rheumatoid arthritis and gout are the other two most familiar types. Osteoarthritis is a degenerative joint disease that causes the cartilage around joints to break down causing pain, stiffness and disability. As with all the major diseases, inflammation is at the root. However, the damage is accelerated by the repetitive action of certain occupations, injuries, family tendency and being overweight. [...]
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The Man on the Horse- Do We Care How He Smells?
To be honest I like the latest, hottest commercial on television because it is funny, not because the man selling the product is good looking from head to toe and has a voice that could whisper in my ear anytime. The sensuality is a plus. But it is a good commercial, it’s a funny commercial and the [...]