February 8, 2010

How to get your child through school successfully - a parents guide

Chapter 7 – Dealing with Schools

For most of us dealing with the teachers and administration at our child’s school can be a difficult process.  Many of us approach this important task with needless trepidation or false conceptions.

We were once students ourselves and may have built up a habit of obeying or even expecting punishment or [...]

February 5, 2010

YOU'RE FROM WHERE?

The idiosyncrasies of our [...]

February 3, 2010

VoIP NOW MEANS BUSINESS

Telephone calls over the [...]

February 1, 2010

The attack of the alien multi-media book snatchers

 

It is hard to believe sitting here today, but in 2-3 years’ time paper books simply won’t exist.

I love paper books. Specifically, I love paperbacks. As they say about Toblerone, never eat a sweet that hurts you – so I am not so fond of hardbacks as being uncomfortable and often [...]

February 1, 2010

Why We Need Black History Month

When I was in high school, a million years ago according to my children, we had Negro History Week. A speaker would come to our school to reflect on the progress of the black race. Often they would talk about people we knew from the limited black history allowed in schools. Most of the time [...]

January 19, 2010

Ask not how Obama changed Washington…

After one year, President Obama has yet to defy the Nixon’s funeral rule and deliver change we can believe [...]

December 12, 2009

Communications for the Cancer Male Caregiver

The male caregiver today has a plethora of information available to help him be successful in caring for his loved one. The Internet has literally hundreds of sights devoted to breast cancer and many of them have message boards or sections that discuss the role of the caregiver. There are three sites that I check [...]

December 11, 2009

My Blackberry and Me

My Blackberry and Me

by Bob Grant

My Blackberry is with me all of the time,

Costs less than a Ben but more than a dime.

I am not into iPhones, Tunes, or Pods,

I know with some people that puts me at odds.

My wife wants me to throw it away,

Or burn it in a very large pile of hay.

I [...]

November 11, 2009

Have We Seen Enough Naked People in Bathtubs?

You’ve seen it. You’re sitting there with your kids watching Elf or some kid movie and here they come. A middleaged couple yucking it up over some wine and before you know it they are in the bathtubs in the yard holding hands, celebrating the fact that flaccidity  has been banished with CIALIS. So you [...]

October 14, 2009

THE iPhone IS JAIL BROKEN YET AGAIN

THE iPhone IS JAIL BROKEN YET AGAIN
by Jorge Paez
The daredevils at iPhone Dev have updated their jail breaking tools yet again.  This time, it includes the 3.1.2 iPhone software for iPhone 2 G, 3 G and 3 Gs as well as iPods of the first and second generation.  Note: from the current time, the iPod [...]

October 14, 2009

Questions and Answers

Does anyone know the answer?

No? Well, does anyone know the question?

Which, to me, is the question.

We humans seek THE answer. The get-rich-quick scheme. The fountain of youth. Megamillions lottery jackpot. We will pay for the answer. We will pay a lot for the answer. Whether we know the question or not.

Public discourse in our country [...]

October 7, 2009

Curing Depression

Carl Jung

Now here is another brain teaser for your therapist, or should I say mind teaser, the notion of curing someone with depression. Sadly, this is one of the most common causes of problems in marriages, and while we look for help from the professionals they take advantage of that vulnerability with a platform [...]

September 22, 2009

Julius and Julius (Caesar and Genachowski)

Julius and Julius (Caesar and Genachowski)

by John Armor

Two days ago we were sitting on the dock in Como, having a gellato, waiting for our ship to come in.  Not actually a ship, just a small commuter boat that connects the small communities on the shores of Lake Como in northern Italy.

It is a breathtakingly beautiful [...]

September 18, 2009

Curing Alcoholism

Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage

If you would like to get your therapist’s head spinning ask him or her what it means to be cured and watch as your therapist struggles to answer that question.  The unfortunate reality is the psychology industry, with its biological foundation, has not yet defined what it means [...]

September 17, 2009

The Lost Leadership Skill

If you were asked about the characteristics you believe true leaders exemplify, what would be on that list? (Go ahead, take a few minutes and do that. I’ll wait.)

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OK, do you have a list in your mind? What’s on your list?

Trustworthiness? Respect? Knowledge? Passion? Integrity? Confidence? Intelligence? Compassion? Inspiration?

Now before we get on to the [...]

September 16, 2009

The greatest writer

Everyone has someone in mind for this noble title, or perhaps they have too many, and can’t choose.  Well, let me put forward a name to you, and possibly expand your mind a little as to the worth and possibilities of writing.  I bet you know him.  After all, publishing over 60 books, selling 220 [...]

September 14, 2009

So what do you think Jesus looked like?

Friday is Payday!

Kickin shirt! Walmart?

This is one of my favorite “god” questions, mostly due to the reaction I got the first time I asked it.  I was talking to a co-worker about his beliefs, mostly because they worried me.  He stated that without the threat of “god’s wrath” he would be a [...]

September 14, 2009

Share Your Stories

Sometimes when I would least expect it my father would pull out this big book  published by the Time-Life Corporation with pictures from the second world war. He would point to a group of soldiers crowded on what had once been a glorious ocean liner. “There I am” he would say pointing to a speck [...]

September 13, 2009

CONTESTACIÓN A UN RETO

A partir del punzante, humorístico y crítico artículo publicado recientemente en esta SWI por Tim Roux expuse en el mismo el comentario que ahora incluyo aquí a modo de artículo modificado y [...]

September 9, 2009

Sex Surrogates: The “Logic” of Professional Psychologists Part 3

International Professional Surrogate Association

I am sorry to be so hard on the psychology industry but some of their practices done in the name of “science” bely belief, and I have discovered another concept ridiculous to the point of being hilarious.

Before I go into that concept I do want to discuss what had been my [...]

September 5, 2009

Here Comes the President. Hide the Kids!

Here Comes the President. Hide the Kids!

By Alan Caruba

So the President wants to get the school year off with a speech to all the kids from kindergarten to twelfth grade. Under normal circumstances, this would not arouse my comment although it must be said that I do not recall any previous president doing this.

I do [...]

September 3, 2009

It pays to be mean

Is it a problem that negative journalism is read, viewed, discussed more than positive reporting?  Well, more viewers means more money and as a race, it would seem that we are more attracted to the negative than the positive.

Just  a few nights in front of the TV around any election will demonstrate to the viewer [...]

August 28, 2009

Question: Is Marriage Dead?

Tim Kellis, author of "Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage"

I’m half way through my two month blog tour on relationships.  The stops have generally been both interactive and productive.  I’ve particularly like the stops where the topics were questions related to relationships.

I wanted to share one in particular, at the Long Relationships blog. [...]

August 27, 2009

Ask The Right Question

Asking effective questions is actually an art that we can develop and forms the basis for truly effective communication. Tony Robbins, the motivational expert, says that thinking is actually a process of asking and answering questions. Think about that. It’s true! You are constantly asking yourself questions and answering them. The quality of your questions, determines the quality of the [...]

August 22, 2009

What “is” SpeakWithoutInterruption.com?

Our website www.SpeakWithoutInterruption.com is for “accomplished writers” who want to post articles/essays about any topic or category that is of interest to them.  Many new contributors have asked me what I would like them to write about?  I tell them there is no limit to areas they can address – certainly anything that is important to them [...]

August 22, 2009

Who am I and Why did I start this Blog?

Our site went online December 6, 2008.  Since that time I have been asked, by a number of people, why I set up this blog (now an Online Magazine) and who am I?  I want to take this opportunity to briefly explain both.  My name is Bob Grant.  I am 63 – been married for 42 years – [...]

August 2, 2009

Where’s Obama’s Birth Certificate

Last Friday, I drove to the airport and on that drive, I listened to a discussion on this topic.  After I heard all the “facts” in detail, clearly, this issue is racial and driven by a political agenda from the idealistic, far right that cannot stand anybody that does not [...]

July 24, 2009

OUR CHANGING VERNACULAR

How our society evolves through words and [...]

June 26, 2009

LA RELEVANCIA DEL ZAPATO

En estos días muy próximos a las elecciones intermedias en México, los temas de discusión central han sido el voto nulo y el voto blanco. Al buscar en Google la combinación exacta “voto nulo” obtenemos 495 mil referencias. Con la combinación “voto blanco”, 363 mil [...]

May 29, 2009

Book Excerpt: Do We Develop or Not?

 

 

Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage

We know from Darwin’s theory of evolution that the notion of development elicits controversy from many intellectual corners.  If we think about the notion of development through to its conclusion then many established organizations lose their grip on us as individuals.  This question becomes extremely important in relationships. [...]

May 29, 2009

TALKING WITH YOUR HANDS

Our second set of [...]

May 19, 2009

SOBRE LOS COMENTARIOS DE LECTOR

¿Participar o no participar? ¿Comentar o no comentar lo que leemos en los blogs? ¡He aquí el [...]

May 15, 2009

Hiring the handicapped

A Silicon Valley company I would like to name but should not (libel laws, like gravity, operate 24 hours a day, seven days a week) has gained a global reputation for clever innovation. Their success baffles me.

Some years back I was asked to write a cover story for their external house organ. The project involved [...]

May 13, 2009

All The Presidents Men

The question is will a fair and vigorous press spring up after the newspapers are gone? Will the next Woodward and Bernstein (Washington Post Reporters who uncovered Watergate) be culled from the ranks of bloggers writing about events from other warmed over net news items? Or will that go the way of pulp and belong [...]

May 12, 2009

A failure to communicate (Part 2—the ‘abominable no man’)

Businesses of every imaginable kind must communicate, explain what they do, internally and externally, or die. Reaching out to customers, suppliers, employees, prospects and shareholders is not an option. In the case of publicly-held companies, quarterly and annual financial reporting is the law. To reach prospects and customers they need advertising and public-relations agencies, and [...]

May 11, 2009

Non-Fiction Writing—Avoiding the I, Oh and You

When new authors write non-fiction, they will often base their subject matter on personal experiences. One mistake commonly made, is the over use of the word “I” in the beginning of sentences. “I know this because I’ve been there, done that.” Or, “I did it this, or that way.” Over [...]

May 11, 2009

A failure to communicate (Part 1—it’s an act of will)

How often have you seen businessmen—in business or trying to build one—fail to include communications as a specific budget item in their cost projections? Brilliant inventors and entrepreneurs who don’t see the need for business plans are legion, too. So are marketing geniuses who rely on personal contacts alone. Financial supporters don’t discover new companies [...]

May 8, 2009

Relationships Advice: Transference Causes Divorce

 

 

 

Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage

Here is the most significant point made in the entire book, transference causes divorce.  This one single point can probably do more than any other to motivate couples to learn how to move their relationships in the right direction.  And for the first time ever on a public [...]

May 5, 2009

Spin

Politicians and bureaucrats do it daily, for effect. Headline writers and editors, and their journalists. Radio and TV. So do husbands and wives, sons and daughters, relatives and friends. You do it. I do it. We all do it. We shade and evade, pontificate and prevaricate. We . . . spin. When advertisers do it [...]

May 5, 2009

THE LAST MAN ON EARTH

Or the last one to get a cell [...]

May 4, 2009

On-air illiteracy: the multi-million-dollar misunderstanding

We consumers in the U.S. are being defrauded by the news media for which we pay, by our donations or through the advertising we see and hear, or—if we are advertising agencies—buy. Harsh? Yes. Appropriate? Indeed.

Broadcasting should deliver high-quality written and spoken linguistic skills, through which we and our children learn about life, and how [...]

April 29, 2009

Book Excerpt: Are We Biological Beasts or Psychological Beings?

 

 

 

Tim Kellis, Author of "Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage"

I want to pose to you one of the most significant questions needed to understand before we are going to solve our marriage problem.  Are we biological beasts or psychological beings?  Unfortunately the belief within the mainstream teachings of the psychology industry is that [...]

April 23, 2009

Snatching defeat from the jaws of victory: a tragedy in three acts

Dan gave me my first professional, managerial job in America after I immigrated. I had slaved at a field job in Louisiana’s oil patch for a year, working 80-hour weeks. I was burned out. He took me on, at great risk. It worked, for both of us.

Dan was a piece of work—about 30, a brilliant [...]

April 20, 2009

Innovation Journalism: be there

From May 18-20, a Stanford University conference will focus on journalism in crisis, as electronic media—the Internet, radio and TV—crush print and destroy many journalists’ careers. The ‘Innovation Journalism Conference’ is about reporting on innovations and about new publishing business models for the digital age.

A Swedish scientist turned journalist heads the program: Dr. David Nordfors. [...]

April 10, 2009

The “Logic” of Professional Psychologists Part 2

 

 

 

Lenn

I would like to begin this post by stating that yes I am generalizing psychologists with posts like this, but as I get more involved in my project I am running across more concerned psychologists who do understand the notion of psychological healing through forgiveness by unlocking past experiences that cause individuals to have [...]

April 9, 2009

Website hell

The Internet’s enormity makes it a subject too large for a dozen books, or a hundred. It’s still only a communications channel, regardless of the magical properties ascribed incorrectly to this digital phenomenon. In terms of conveying information, it’s no better and no worse than any other medium—print, video, phone, etc.—except insofar as it might [...]

April 8, 2009

Five seconds

You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Old saying. Important meaning to politicians, to advertisers and to their agencies, to copywriters, to website creators . . . indeed to anyone who attempts to communicate for a living, as I do.

Ask someone who scans a newspaper or magazine or blog how they [...]

April 2, 2009

‘A nation of servants’

I would like to post here an article written by a Hong Kong-based magazine columnist who labeled the Philippines as a “nation of servants”.

“The war at home”

by Chip Tsao
HK Magazine
The Russians sank a Hong Kong freighter last month, killing the seven Chinese seamen on board. We can live with that—Lenin and Stalin were once the [...]

April 1, 2009

Blog Tour on Relationships with Relationship Expert Tim Kellis

 

 

Tim Kellis, author of "Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage"

Hello

The month of April is upon us and I would like to invite you for a Blog Tour I will be doing this month, and next. The focus on the tour will be relationships, and the discussion is sure to be lively. 

I want to [...]

March 23, 2009

Book Review by Bettie Corbin Tucker from Independent Book Reviewers

Hello.  
I wanted to share with you a recent book review by Bettie Corbin Tucker from Independent Book Reviewers.  To view the review online please visit the following link:

“Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage” Book Review

 

If you would like to pick up a copy of the book you can get it for a 20% [...]

March 16, 2009

The “Logic” of Professional Psychologists

If you want to know why we have a 50% divorce rate you need to look no further than the “logic” used by the professionals.  And I have a wonderful example for you.  Below you will read a comment that someone actually posted to a blog interview I hosted.  To see the full blog interview [...]

March 10, 2009

Roses: A Love Story by an Anonymous Author

Red roses were her favorites, her name was also Rose.
And every year her husband sent them, tied with pretty bows.
The year he died, the roses were delivered to her door.
The card said, ‘Be my Valentine,’ like all the years before.
Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say,
‘I love you even more [...]

March 5, 2009

My Inspiration for Writing “Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage”

 

 

Tim Kellis, author of "Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage"

My biggest influence, and the reason I have taken on the challenge of saving marriages, were my parents, who again just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.  And their influence wasn’t because of anything they ever said to me, but what they did, [...]

March 3, 2009

How Do You Each Handle the Intellectual and Emotional Side in the Relationship

Handling the Intellectual and Emotional Side in the Relationship

The notion of development has been hotly debated for centuries by men and women of knowledge, as demonstrated by the difficulty in accepting the theories of Darwinism.  Within relationships, this concept becomes even more significant, because if you understand the notion that you are developing a relationship, [...]

March 3, 2009

Slumdogs all: yes, YOU

Airplane as metaphor: torture chamber. Flights beyond five-six hours numb the mind, heart and backside. The trip from San Francisco to Delhi, pausing in Frankfurt briefly to change planes at local midday, one night into the mission, seems endless.
Over Eastern Europe and Asia in daylight, barren territory slips by seven miles below. Over Afghanistan, the [...]

March 2, 2009

Oh my America!

You found me first, America, in WWII. I was a boy in England. You were a 20-year-old airman on your way to die for me and many others in many nations, in the violent skies over Europe. You were kind, casual, full of life. We were starving and scared. You gave us food and affection. [...]

February 27, 2009

The arrogance of power: CEOs we don’t need

It can’t be repeated too often. CEOs earn their X60 or (much) more of an average worker’s pay by holding up the business structure, not by ruling it. They’re not Masters of the Universe, enthroned on top; they’re on the bottom, the pressure point, the place where the buck truly stops. That includes listening as [...]

February 26, 2009

When Only One is Working on the Problems in the Relationship

 

For an article I’m writing for CNN.com, I’m seeking both nationally known relationship experts as well as “real” people to talk about this topic: when the person you married or fell in love with makes a drastic life change. Perhaps she used to love burgers, but then became a strict vegan and now pushes [...]

February 26, 2009

BLOGPROLIX

News we need and ads we sell . . . won’t fit: at $10,000 per second!

Broadcasters and publishers sell ‘time’ and ‘space’ and fill the rest with ‘news.’ Bad writing or editing cuts content we need. Prolix or pompous bafflegab, vs. clear use, hogs valuable space. Here are examples from [...]

February 24, 2009

Quid-Pro-Quo in the Relationship

 

WendyK Says:

How do you communicate with your spouse

I don’t really have any questions. Sounds boring I guess. But we seem to be doing good. After nearly 13yrs of marriage we have our rough stops, our fights but honestly we can’t imagine NOT being married to each other. We both agreed when we got [...]

February 24, 2009

“Ladies and gentlemen, start your . . . word processors.”

“Where did you get that idea? It felt like being there.” Writers puff up with pride at such comments. They know that good writing is brain food, the glue of life. There are no simple answers but my experience with six novels may help. All but one of my novels was original: things that never [...]

February 23, 2009

What if your spouse gets on your nerves

Periodically I will post questions and answers from blog interviews I have done on other blogs.  Here is one regarding what to do if your spouse gets on your nerves.  

Tim Kellis Author of "Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage"

 

 

 

Dorothy Says:

So excited to see Tim out there! I just received his book [...]

February 22, 2009

Should I Copyright My Work?

One of the most commonly asked questions of new authors is “Should I copyright my work?” Authors are concerned their work might be stolen by some smuck (sorry, couldn’t think of a better descriptive word) who reprints their work and claims authorship for it. Well, the truth is, it could be. But whether filing a legal copyright will make a difference; that’s [...]

February 20, 2009

“The glass is 90% full.” “No! It’s 10% empty.” Your choice?

The U.S. economy, and much of the global economy, is retrenching. There are many causes, some nefarious or naive, some cyclic or naturally caused (what goes up must come down—nature’s oscillations). Either way, we’re seeing a ~10% adjustment worldwide. It has happened before. It will happen again. Guaranteed.
For an individual suffering layoff, foreclosure or other [...]

February 19, 2009

Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage Book Review

Here is a book review you might find interesting on “Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage”.  Please visit www.happyrelationships.comto pick up your copy today, for a limited time at 20% off.  Also please visit our blog at questforthehappymarriage.blogspot.com for an ongoing discussion.  

Review

Book reviewer Jacqueline Jung says the disintegration of a love affair sent relationship author [...]

February 19, 2009

‘Reality fiction’—the new nausea

Literary publications such as the NEW YORKER have been running, for too long, fiction that tries to ennoble the unnecessary exposition of reality, in excruciating detail. Too often the reader neither wants nor needs it. Such work often seems more like an MFA-class writing exercise than rational communication. It’s ‘too much information’ or TMI, at [...]

February 18, 2009

Managing Conflicts in Relationships

Here is an article I wrote up regarding managing conflicts in relationships.  You can view the blog story at the followin link questforthehappymarriage.blogspot.com.  The article was written for a journalist for The Times Union.   

So How Should Couples Handle Their Conflicts

I’m not a yeller. I never have been. When my sister and [...]

February 18, 2009

Twitter: apt name

If we are to believe the slavering electronic and print media, who are fawning over it wherever one turns, we are supposed to bow down and adore the Internet’s latest thrill, the new ‘social medium’ dubbed Twitter. Its goal: make a profound (?) statement in a 140-letter public post about what one is ‘doing.’ When [...]

February 17, 2009

Driving us mad with the noise

Advertisers who assault their customers and prospects are engaged in self-defeating behavior. This might seem obvious but the logic apparently eludes many TV advertisers, and most film studios whose trailers run in theaters before feature movies. Both groups violate viewers and listeners with noise levels beyond annoying into cruel and unusual punishment. In both cases [...]

February 16, 2009

On the edge: “I’d do it for naked for nothing on a street corner.”

Melissa Leo was nominated for a Best Actress Oscar for her performance as an impoverished single mom in the 2008 film “Frozen River.” Interviewed about her raw, bravura achievement, she said that though agents would kill her for saying it, her elation in getting that role in director Courtney Hunt’s movie—it required her to plumb [...]

February 14, 2009

News Fit to Print

There are far too many things that end up in newspapers that are not news. Perhaps I am old school but I long for front pages that serve the purpose of informing the general public with items we need to know to survive, for international sections that tell me about other cultures not who from [...]

February 13, 2009

How to attract a literary agent: a brief, personal memoir

Writers often ask me about agent representation, without which writers go nowhere in publishing. True story: seeking representation, I had reached a responsive agent in Los Angeles. It started well. I was ‘established’ (yeah, right!), published by major New York houses Morrow and Ballantine. I invited him to breakfast at the LAX Marriott. Contact data [...]

February 12, 2009

Some Thoughts on Blogs & TV

This is my first post to SWI. Given that this blog came into existence out of dissatisfaction with radio and TV, with the way they so often frustrate the free exchange of opinion, I thought I would comment briefly on a few thoughts I’ve had about TV and blogs.

One significant difference between TV [...]

February 9, 2009

Newspapers are not dead, nor dying

“Reports of my death,” wrote Mark Twain, “are greatly exaggerated.” Throughout the newspaper world, from publishers’ to managing editors’ offices, at journalists’ desks and in ad salespeople’s cubicles, among printing-union workers and support staff, doom is being predicted, the sky’s fall certified. The pessimists believe that their jobs are evaporating, going to electronic media that [...]

February 5, 2009

John Patrick Shanley

In this era of celebrity adulation, where ludicrous media space is spent to over-describe everything down (almost) to the size, color and consistency of the bowel movements of the rich, famous and frequently feckless, consider what happens when an ordinary mortal attempts to communicate with a Famous Personage, whoever he or she may be.
I went [...]

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