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August 24, 2010
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Begun back sometime in 2001, this book was originally a fluke of an idea… [...]
July 7, 2010
I didn’t plan to write here today. I planned to spend my free time researching my next novel. But in my research I ran across a poem that brought tears to my eyes. It was written by the esteemed African American poet of the Harlem Renaissance Countee Cullen. When you get a chance look it up on Google. It is entitled Simon the Cyrenian Speaks and it spoke to me about race. Continue reading Why We Must Forget About Race
May 30, 2010
As we celebrate our veterans in the middle of yet another war, I have a story told to me by a friend who rarely talks about his Vietnam expierience. It is with his permission I pass this on.
PINK ELEPHANT
Henry was sixteen when left home in for no particular reason 1963. It was just what impatient young men did. Henry was black, very black. He was thick and muscular, with a penetrating stare and hair with a mind of its own. His gait and demeanor suggested menace, but he was always delightfully cheerful and easygoing. He was what, mythically, white folks feared; a confidant Black man. His restlessness and the belief that he needed to expand his horizons sent him to South Carolina, near his mother’s relatives. After finishing high school and drifting for a while, He enlisted in the Army and never went home again. Continue reading For Veterans
May 27, 2010
A few times a week our house smells like the kitchens ’down home’. That’s one of those old southern expressions that takes you back to the South and back to your roots. It’s funny that I use the word ‘roots’ here because the smell the emanates from our kitchen is from a storage root vegetable, sweet potatoes. They are an important source of vitamins but also an important part of my history. Continue reading Sweet Potatoes
May 20, 2010
The year escapes me when I try to remember it but the events never leave my memory for long. It was well past midnight and I was still in grade school when my journalist father came in drunk. It was the only time in my life that I saw him like that. He was brought home by a friend who happened to be one of the first black Atlanta policemen. Together they had traveled to the execution of a black man who had been convicted of raping a white woman in a poor white area called Cabbagetown. The woman said her attacker was a well dressed tall light skinned black man. The man they arrested and eventually executed was short and dark. He was a minister as well. The only thing I knew for many years was that my father came home drunk and ended up crying that he had failed to save this man. I was peeking out of my bedroom door watching and listening as my siblings slept and my mother plied him with coffee. Years later I wanted to write about what happened to make my father drink. It became a novel entitled “No Death by Unknown Hands.” Continue reading The Evolution of “No Death by Unknown Hands”
May 14, 2010
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Amazing how many high government officals (including the Attorney General), political pundits, politicians, school officials and religious leaders comment so harshly on the immigration law in Arizona and publicly admit they haven’t read the ten page document.
The document basically states that when being stopped for a traffic violation or questioned concerning a crime that [...]
April 30, 2010
Back in the early 60s when I was in grade school I was given a treat on many Saturdays of going to The Atlanta Daily World, the paper where my father was City Editor, and spending the day with him as he put the Sunday edition ‘to bed’. I learned all the lingo for his profession because I knew that was what I wanted to be: a journalist. My favorite thing to do at the paper was read what came across the Associted Press wire. I could get a sampling of everything going on around the world before it came out in any of Atlanta’s papers the next day. It was an inside practice that I loved for years and inserted in my novel “No Death by Unknown Hands” which is about a 14 year old girl who wants to be a writer like her dad in Atlanta in 1952. (You can read the first chapter of this novel on Tim Roux’s site http://nightreading.ning.com/). It never occurred to me as I longed for the chance to be a newspaper woman that most women were never be allowed to handle real news.
Then there was Evelyn Cunningham who died at the age of 94 and worked for for than 20 years for The Pittsburgh Courier. Continue reading When a Woman Wants to Be a Writer
April 23, 2010
My birthday present from my mom arrived yesterday, several days early. Of course I had to open it, there would be no waiting until next week. Mama had been telling me in our daily conversation that she had been creating something for me, and also a gift for my youngest who graduated early from college. Like a five year old I ripped into the box and pulled out a small notebook that had been turned into a book of sayings my mother had found. She had handwritten fifty of them for my daughter, decorated the cover with a beautiful fabric and opposite each saying was a tiny pastel envelope with a dollar bill inside. Then it was my turn to look at my gift and my heart stopped. My very creative mother had taken a painting that I had done when I was sixteen and trying to emulate the art of my father and that hung in the hallway of their home, a hallway that was like an art gallery, and had it made into note cards. On the back was a sticker that said: Artwork by Minnette Coleman.
What a lovely, personal gift, I thought. Then something else came to mind. My mother didn’t do things like this when we were little. My mother never let her star shine while my father was alive. It was the way of her generation. Continue reading A Gift from My Mother- Lessons from Her Generation
March 9, 2010
Anyone who has ever set foot on a historically black college or university campus knows that there is something called stepping, the form of percussive dance where the entire body is used to produce intricate rhythms and sounds comprised of a mixture of rapid footsteps, spoken word, rhyme, hand claps, syncopation and synchronization. Stepping is generally performed in groups or teams and finds its origins in African foot dance. African American Greek-lettered fraternities and sororities across the nation have always taken pride in their step performances and often organized fierce competitions Alpha Kappa Alpha (ΆΚΆ), Alpha Phi Alpha, Delta Sigma Theta (Deltas), Iota Phi Theta, Kappa Alpha Psi (Kappas), Omega Psi Phi I (Que Dogs or the /Ques), Phi Beta Sigma, Zeta Phi Beta (Zetas), and Sigma Gamma Rho comprise what is known in the Black community as the “Divine Nine” and are celebrated for their innovative and sometime provocative step routines. Continue reading The Culture of Step
March 1, 2010
I am the descendant of slaves and white slave owners. I did not melt into the pot that is America. The pot melted into me. Back in the later 50s and early 60s no one I knew wanted to admit to that. To be a descendant of a slave meant you were less than a second class citizen, it meant being someone uncivilized from the jungles of Africa. It often meant being told by white people that you looked like monkeys and apes. Of course none of this is true but back then black baby boomers were taught that our history contained one thing- slavery. We didn’t want it to mean that our lives led no where because of this ancestry. For most of us to move on it meant pretending we had no history. Continue reading Being Black and Proud
February 1, 2010
Kachi A. Ozumba’s story of corruption, judicial incompetence and prevailing injustice in Nigeria is lightened by the humour he mixes with the pathos. Zuba, the naive and honest victim, moves from initial complacent trust in the legal system through amazement, disbelief and despair to a realisation that he cannot expect the judicial authorities to treat his situation seriously or with fairness. The police and prison authorities are shown as corrupt but perhaps no more so than the rest of this society.
Against the background of incarceration and hierarchical prison ethics, he paints a picture of a country still at war with a major portion of its citizens. The conflict with Biafra is a constant strand running through the novel and displays the underlying tribal nature of the Dark Continent, showing, with subtle insights, why prejudice is both harmful and pointless, wherever it may manifest itself.
Kachi paints his characters as real people undergoing real events. The details of daily life, education and the prison system in Nigeria suggest he has experienced all three; if not, his research methods are extraordinary. He also raises questions about the nature and value of religious faith, perhaps hinting that it is of greater value to the desperate and ignorant than to the hopeful and educated. Continue reading Stuart Aken Reviews The Shadow of a Smile by Kachi A Ozumba
December 31, 2009
This evening while most of us are preparing to ring in the New Year with a glass of bubbly some in the African American community will spend the hours before the change of years in church. Although people of many faiths spend the last night of the old year praying in the new Night Watch is the historical way to celebrate the new year and new freedom. Continue reading Night Watch
November 25, 2009
Our First Lady Michelle Obama looked like new world glamour at the first state dinner of her husband’s administration. While there will be some to detract from the moment or those who will find fault with her wardrobe choice let me tell you how an African American girl from Georgia feels being able to witness this part of this country’s history. I am talking about the acceptance of black really being beautiful. Continue reading Beauty and Ethnic Pride
November 16, 2009
As a college student eager to explore the world outside the South I spent many winter breaks in New York City. My first was with my roommate Kaye who lived in Queens. I got to see a few of the sights and only visited Harlem once when we went to dinner at Copeland’s Restaurant on 145th St. The winters after that were more about expanding my horizons in the great city and making trips to Harlem, a place ravaged by poverty and violence of the turbulent ‘60s. Over the years things have changed but even with the explosion called gentrification something about Harlem remains the same. Continue reading The Truth About Harlem
November 8, 2009
Posted by Tim Roux in: African-American, China, Foreign Affairs, Foreign Relations, History, Homeland Security, Islam, Journalism, Latino & Hispanic, Military, Morality, Politics, Religion, Republican, Sociology, Terrorism, Women's Rights
In Britain it is now a criminal offence to make any statement which might incite racial hatred. So, if you go around saying that all Irishmen are stupid or all Welshmen are thieves, then you may well find yourself helping the police with their enquiries and facing a sharp fine or even a term of imprisonment.
Some commentators consider this law to be draconian but it does take a clear political stance and one thing I have learnt over my lifetime is that nearly all racism is neither random nor ‘naturally’ grassroots-derived but rather politically or economically motivated, indeed directed.
Once upon a time, not so long ago, black Africans were slaves or treated as slaves. They were shackled, they died in transit under inhuman conditions, they were worked to death, they were unpaid. How do you justify treating a fellow human being this way? How can it be possible even legally to rape and execute black Africans at whim?
There was a simple answer. Black Africans were not human, they were sub-human. Indeed, they hailed from another, lesser, branch of the human family altogether. And there was no shortage of commentators and pseudo-scientists who popped up to argue that black Africans were so bestial that they were really no different from a cow or a horse, that they were incapable of moral understanding (probably the most obscene argument in history), that they were beyond civilisation and, yes, if you measured their brains they were smaller and lighter than a white man’s. Continue reading Should there be a law against it?
November 6, 2009
The invitation came via the Internet as most things do these days and I almost choked when I saw that it was for the 40th year reunion of my high school graduating class. I hadn’t felt old before I opened that I email but once reading it I felt like an aged troll sitting at my desk, glasses sliding down my nose, streaks of gray hair reflecting the extra light that I needed to see any damn thing. The class of 1969 of Charles Lincoln Harper High in Atlanta, GA was being called to account for itself for a December 18, 2009 class reunion. Continue reading Memory from the Class of Harper High 1969
October 14, 2009
She is the fourth of seven children of a single mother who prided herself on being able to get any man she wanted and wanted to pass that singular ability on to her daughters. This daughter says she grew up troubled- one year she and her older siblings were all in jail at the same time. And yet last night the young woman I met was completely changed. Not because she had to, she could have followed her mother’s path of living off society and having numerous children by as many men. The young woman I met last night changed because she wanted to. She told me she had things to do with her life. Continue reading Moving On Up
October 9, 2009
When Barack Obama was elected President of the United States Maya Angelo said American had finally grown up. A nation that couldn’t accept people of color in schools, in the workplace, in prestigious jobs finally understood that one’s skin had nothing to do with one’s ability. Two weeks after he took the oath of office our new President was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize. Today it was announced that he won. As the old people used to say when I was growing up more good news in the kingdom. Continue reading Good News in The Kingdom
October 6, 2009
Autumn has finally come to New York. The mornings are chilly and the nights are colder. It is the season when one pulls out a warm top to cover that cotton shirt. For the older fashionista it may be something leather, and of course being New York, it will be black. Sometimes I believe New Yorkers are afraid of being caught in colors. But for those who are younger, those on the way to the gym, those who are not doing a dress up 9 to 5 it is the season of the black hoodie. Continue reading The Season of Black Hoodies
September 16, 2009
Posted by Alan Caruba in: Accountability, African-American, Business, Cap and Trade, Congress, Current Events, Democracy, Economic Crisis, Energy, Environmental Issues, Global Warming, Governance, Healthcare, Opinion, The Economy
 By Alan Caruba
I cannot tell you how relieved I was to hear Ben Bernake, the Chairman of the Federal Reserve, announce that the United States is “technically” out of the recession. I spent much of the day waiting for my phone to ring with offers of work.
Chairman Bernake did add that jobs would lag, but all the experts say that jobs always lag and, if that’s the case, I am thinking this time around jobs are not only going to lag, they are going to disappear, run away, and leave much of the work force unable to live the “American dream.”
There was a time when the American dream included the opportunity for everyone to own their own home. That dream was based on having a steady job and a decent wage. It was dependent on people saving some of their income for a down payment. It was not dependent on federal government programs that put pressure on banks and mortgage lenders to make loans to people that ACORN had dragged in off the street.
I would feel a lot better about Bernake’s announcement if Congress wasn’t right now getting ready to pass a piece of legislation that every single poll says the MAJORITY of Americans do not like and do not want.
I speak of course of Obamacare. The same polls also suggest that the more Obama shows up on television giving speeches, being interviewed, and otherwise sucking all the air out of the room, the more a MAJORITY of Americans distrust and dislike him. Continue reading “Technically” We’re Out of a Recession
September 16, 2009
On the evening of September 15, 2009, following a meeting at New York’s 30th Precinct, members of a community group hoping to work with the police to create Neighborhood Watches were stopped by two women as they handed out flyers about the Hamilton Heights rapist and informed that they knew the suspect and where he lived. Days before the police claimed they had DNA and a possible suspect in hand, these women went to the precinct to give this information to the authorities only to be sent away. They were trying to do their civic duty and the police ignored them.
This is one reason some people in Harlem are hesitant to deal with the police. Continue reading The Hamilton Heights Rapist- A Test for Police and Community
September 11, 2009
2nd e-mail from the person that filed the complaint.
Thursday, 2/12/09, 9:49 AM
As parents it is our responsibility to make sure our son is safe and doesn’t do thinks like pull down blinds. As responsible tenants it is our job to make sure that nothing in the apartment is damaged and if something becomes damaged during our tenancy, we of course know we will be financially responsible for all damages we incur. As the landlord of this property I’m sure you would write this financial responsibility in the lease. If you feel that the only reason you would not rent to us, is because of our young child, and the slight possibility that he might pull down your blinds I assure you there are plenty of ways of resolving this issue. One being that we would remove the blinds as we have done at our current residence and will put them back when we vacate the unit. If after reading this email you still feel that you can not risk the liability, I would appreciate and email letting me know that we are denied. Thank you.
Excerpt from wife’s response to May 18, 2009 letter from “2nd Consultant of Fair Employment & Housing”.
As (1st Consultant ) I talked to suggested, I attended and completed the Fair Housing training class (5/18). I was glad that I went. I learned that I don’t have to be afraid of coming forward with the truth regarding why I considered renting to other applicants. While I was showing (complainant) the unit, they allowed their son to play with the dials of the stove, turning on the gas, turning on the dish-washer and pulling on the nine foot-long blinds (not the cord as you wrote in your letter). I witnessed that the ( parents) didn’t discipline their child. (The father) played ball with his son. The ball was either a child-sized basketball, or a football. They threw the ball back and forth over the kitchen counter and the hanging light. I had a hard time keeping my smile up. I couldnt’ help but conclude that the (parents) were not responsible … Continue reading Political Correctness Gone Wrong # 4
September 11, 2009
During the 19th century and (in some cases) for a few centuries before, the Great Powers (as they were known then) raped Africa – seized the land, seized the mineral wealth, seized the people, and had a fair go with any women left standing as well.
Can we agree on that?
No? It was all subject to the Law of Contract?
Well, my history book tells me that the Law of Contract came with gunboats, administrators and hangings attached. What does yours say? I think we can call that ‘force majeure’.
Let bygones by bygones?
Yeah, well I tried that with Amex last week. “Mr. Hewtson le Roux, you have borrowed £6,000 from us and we want it back with 23% APR interest now!”
“That’s all history,” I declared. “You cannot delve into the past forever.” Continue reading Reparations – let’s buy shares in Africa
September 10, 2009
I have finally had enough of the bashing of our new president. Everyone has a right to like or dislike him protocol dictates that if you don’t respect the man respect the office. And you do not shout out in the middle of a Presidential speech “You’re a liar” no matter how much you dislike or distrust him. Continue reading Respect- He is the President
September 4, 2009
Posted by dacipha in: Accountability, African-American, Attitude, Cancer, Diet, General Topics, Habit Change, Health & Fitness, Medical, Opinion, Uncategorized, Weight loss, Wellness
You must have heard the song, “Just a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down in a most delightful way!” I can clearly hear Julie Andrews sing this as ‘Mary Poppins’. But I want to tell you about something else that might not go down so delightful but it will act as a medicine going down!
Do you know that a teaspoon of Apple Cider Vinegar can help you live a longer life? In the age of plastic surgery this may be difficult to grasp. How can something so insignificant have an awesome effect on your life? Well give me the chance to explain.
I was told a story by my fiancée that changed my entire belief about apple cider vinegar forever! One day my fiancée went to see his Ophthalmologist to purchase another pair of glasses. After his eye examination, the eye doctor asked him a question. He asked, “How old do you think I am?” My significant other replied, “You must be around 65.” The Ophthalmologist responded, “No, I am 80 years old. The secret is to have a teaspoon of apple cider vinegar once a day.” My husband came home and told me the news immediately. He did his research and concluded that we should purchase some right away! Continue reading Just a Spoon full of……..Apple Cider Vinegar
September 4, 2009
When you have been black as long as I have you work extremely hard at not looking at everything through “are they being racist” colored glasses. I could complain that previous First Lady’s were always addressed in the press by the formal title “Mrs.” while the current first lady is usually called Michelle Obama. I could say that insult has been added to over 400 years of injury just talking about her bare arms, her sweaters and her decision to wear shorts in public. Did anyone other First Lady get such scrutiny involving her wardrobe? But I twist my glasses to reflect a brighter future where things that are said are not meant to harm- racially. I say this because I am not not going to talk about Mrs. Obama’s hair. Continue reading Not About Mrs. Obama’s Hair
September 3, 2009
The first e-mail that my wife wrote:
Wednesday, February 11, 2009 at 2:26 PM,
I received the documents that you faxed over. I looks quite impressive. I appreciate your interest very much. However, what happened at my showing (twenty potential renters showed up) last night after you were gone led me to a concern. A couple came by with a young son about your son’s age. The boy pulled down my 9 foot blinds (in the living room) and almost got his face cut. I was so afraid for him. As you might recall, I have three large ceiling to floor glass-doors in living room, master bedroom and kitchen, all with the standard vertical blinds, to which I could do nothing to prevent it from being pulled by a small child.
So, I don’t think I can afford that liability. I am still in the process of reviewing candidates, however, I must be honest with you that the liability issue is on my mind. If you don’t hear from me by tomorrow, please move on. I wish you all the best.
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The follow up letter to the phone conversation that was posted with PCGW #2
May 18, 2009
Dear Ms. (my wife):
Pursuant to our conversation today I attempted to review with you the complainant and conciliating process. You informed me that because English is your second language you need to have our communications in writing. I am sending you this letter to (address). Continue reading Political Correctness Gone Wrong # 3
August 28, 2009
“It’s the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.” – Claude M. Bristol
Smooches, Ladies and Gentlemen! Today I would like to discuss affirmations. Just the fact that you are on this website means that you are seeking to improve your physical appearance. The truth, in fact is, in order to alter your physical form, a change must occur in your mind. I consider that a person’s appearance is merely a reflection of the true inner thoughts and feelings that one holds about himself. Therefore in reality, you are actually seeking to improve your complete person.
Affirmations will be very important in your journey toward self development. These petite yet powerful statements are small in stature but mighty in battle. When I say battle, I refer to the mental conflict that we all experience. There may be times that you have a specific goal in mind but this does not mean that you truly believe that you can attain it. Affirmations serve as tools to speak perfect life into your mind. They can be the difference between living a life of fear and stagnancy or a life of promise and abundance. When affirmations are performed in repetition, these positive words begin to control the mind and replace the pessimistic thoughts. The more you utter affirmations in confidence of faith; you will actually begin to believe what you are declaring. And belief is the building block behind manifesting your dreams into your reality. Continue reading Talk To Yourself
August 25, 2009
Posted by Lloyd Lofthouse in: Accountability, African-American, China, Democracy, Freedom, Legal, Minorities, Politics, Social Classes, Social Issues, Uncategorized
My wife grew up in China during Mao’s Cultural Revolution (it is estimated that thirty-eight million died because of Mao’s policies). When she was a teenager, she was sent to a labor camp. She arrived in the United States in 1984 at twenty-eight. At the time, she did not speak English. She learned enough to survive after several months.
Her first language is Mandarin. If someone speaks English fast, she gets lost. Under pressure, her ability to translate breaks down. She translates (in her head) every word she hears. While attending college in Chicago and working several jobs over the years, she saved enough to invest for her retirement and bought one four-unit apartment building and one condominium. Today, she is an American citizen and she loved capitalism until recently. Now she has a bitter taste in her memory.
Soon after escrow closed on the condominium, an incident took place when my wife first listed the unit so she could rent it. An African American couple came along with many other couples to see the condominium. When my wife didn’t rent to the African American couple, they sent her an e-mail wanting to know the reason why. Continue reading Political Correctness Gone Wrong # 2
August 22, 2009
If there is honor among thieves then there is hubris among criminals of color in the community where I live. The distrust of ‘the man’ has created a situation for those more upwardly mobile of any color living in this racial and economically diverse area. It has come to light that those who know about criminal activity refuse to tell. Snitching, it seems, is worse than murder and is considered the ultimate betrayal of the black community, even when the community is asking for justice.
A black comedian once commented that Martha Stewart and Lil Kim both went to jail because they refused to snitch. Of course it is more complicated than that but snitching is something that we all were told not to do when we were children. It was considered poor judgement to tattle as well as a character flaw. No one could trust a tattle tale with the intricate secrets of childhood. You know those important secrets that were part of growing up from how many cookies you stole from the jar to where you disappeared to when you should have been studying. Tattle tales were our least favorite people since most of them sucked up to the teachers and tried to get ahead of everyone else by flaunting their ability to know everyone’s business. Continue reading Snitching to Save a Community
August 21, 2009
Posted by dacipha in: African-American, Attitude, Education, Family, Health & Fitness, Inspiration & Motivation, Latino & Hispanic, Mental Health, Nutrition, Uncategorized, Weight loss, Wellness, Women's Perspective, Working Women
Smooches, my beautiful ladies! Please understand that I am not the fitness connoisseur. I speak as a concerned woman. This article is to encourage you to be the beautiful woman that God has called you to be. My desire is for you to be emotionally, mentally, spiritually, socially, physically and financially whole. It is very important for women to focus on their health. I am exasperated with the obesity issue that is sweeping the nation. It sickens me. I honestly do not want my fabulous sisters facing high risk of heart attacks, high blood pressure, diabetes, hypertension and strokes. I would have it that you all will prosper as your soul prospers. To be quite frank with you, your physical appearance is a reflection of your mental condition. Please do not misunderstand this statement. I am not saying that you must wear a size two! I am not proclaiming that being skinny is superior and that being an awesome size ten is sub standard or second rate. You can be marvelous regardless of your body form or figure. The essential detail is that you are a healthy size two, eight or even fourteen.
My main focus is that we learn how to take care of ourselves just as well as our children, husbands and families. We are very important too. I have learned that if I am ‘no good’, my children and significant other is at a total disadvantage as well. Your well being is more important than a job, business or situation. You are the most important being in your life and your health should be top priority. Continue reading Get In Shape, Girl
August 18, 2009
Posted by Lloyd Lofthouse in: African-American, Democracy, Education, Freedom, Governance, Latino & Hispanic, Minorities, Morality, Opinion, Politics, Social Classes, Social Issues
Each post will be less than 700 words.
This is the first entry—an introduction.
There will be several more on this topic.
By Lloyd Lofthouse
During America’s Civil Rights era, laws were enacted with the intent to correct wrongs in America. I strongly agree that it was wrong to segregate schools and provide an education for people of color inferior to the education offered to whites. It was wrong to make people walk in the gutters because the sidewalks were reserved for whites. It was wrong to have one bathroom for people of color and another for whites. It was wrong to deny someone the right to a job due to color or religion. It was wrong to deny someone the right to rent or buy a house or apartment because of race or religion. It is still wrong for violent, racist groups like the KKK and white supremacists to terrorize and victimize anyone they do not approve of. To fix those wrongs, government organizations were created to enforce these new laws.
Today, most people are terrified to publicly express honest opinions about topics that fall under political correctness and what has gone wrong with the complex system designed to correct those inequalities. Since this column is going to cross that line, there is a strong chance I will be criticized for what I write. There may be incidences where what I write will be taken out of context.
Because I am white, I may be the wrong person to write this column. After all, to many, I’m already guilty due to my skin color. It doesn’t matter that my father was a second generation American and my grandfather was born on the boat inside the three-mile limit. It does not matter that my mother’s ancestors arrived with the Pilgrims and started out in the New England states as indentured servants. Continue reading Political Correctness Gone Wrong # 1
August 14, 2009
This is my personal take on the incident involving a certain professor Henry Louis Gates and officer James Crowley (et. al.) and whether this was truly a racial profiling incident. Personaly, I think Gates was looking for some attention and he got just that, with even the President weighing in on this, and then the Beer Summit…. [...]
August 2, 2009
Posted by Lloyd Lofthouse in: African-American, Attitude, Communications, Current Events, Democracy, Freedom, Journalism, Morality, Motivation, Opinion, Politics, Republican
Last Friday, I drove to the airport and on that drive, I listened to a discussion on this topic. After I heard all the “facts” in detail, clearly, this issue is racial and driven by a political agenda from the idealistic, far right that cannot stand anybody that does not believe as they do.
It was mentioned that Obama provided a copy of his birth certificate to CNN before the election, and experts verified it was real. Another search found birth notices in the archives of two newspapers in Hawaii. In addition, the governor of Hawaii, a Republican, said that there is no doubt that Obama was born in Hawaii. Yet, this issue will not die just like the “Swift boat Veterans for Truth”, or whatever they called themselves, didn’t die as they took facts about Kerry’s life and smeared them all over the place casting doubt on his honesty and courage.
Just because Kerry received minor flesh wounds does not make him a coward. It sounds like I have changed topic, but both are related because both show how political agendas turn lies into truth in the public arena of misinformation designed to influence opinions and votes.
Even if Obama printed a hundred million copies of the original birth certificate and mailed them out, those that want to believe he is not a citizen and shouldn’t be in the White House will still believe. Nothing will change their minds. Even if someone took those people by the ear and led them to the evidence, they would claim it was forged. Even if nonbiased experts said they examined the birth notices in newspapers, the records in the hospital and the birth certificates and found all to be valid (which they have), there would be doubts because that is the goal as another election looms. There are racist, far right conservative idealists out there that would not admit the truth if they were in that operating room the day Obama was born. In addition, even if Obama was born in another country, his mother was an American citizen and at that time, that automatically made him an American citizen because that was the law. Continue reading Where’s Obama’s Birth Certificate
August 2, 2009
There are still people out there who do not beleive that racism still exists. I have lots to say to them but not today.
Today perhaps they should watch HBO’s Prom Night in Mississippi.This is a special about a town in Mississippi where the actor Morgan Freeman resides and their sigular high school’s duel prom system. Since blacks were allowed to attend the high school in the 1970s there were always two proms- one for black students and one for whites. The school and the board of education apparently had nothing to do with the decision for the separate but equal socializing. Freeman thought this was stupid and went to the school and said he would pay for an integrated prom. This is the story in the documentary. Continue reading This Will Be Short
July 29, 2009
Yes, I am a fan of Michael Jackson! And yes, I know that Michael was very controversial. But why can’t the world just let him rest in peace.
The King of Pop has been gone for over a month and the news concerning his private endeavors has not decreased!
And to think that this man is not even buried! What disrespect! Well, that is another story.
I understand that the authorities are
deeply investigating Michael Jackson’s
death. I also understand that a great
quantity of prescription drugs are involved. There is also a custody hearing goign on to dictate who will hae guardianship over his children. Yes, yes and yes! I understand. Continue reading “Just Leave Him Alone”
July 24, 2009
President Obama and the “stupid” police
by William Hazelgrove
Police are in an uproar. The President called them stupid. Was it stupid for the cop to arrest the black professor from Harvard in his home.? Probably not stupid just more of the same old same old. The police say this officer is stellar. He is fair. Maybe he is. Maybe he is a very good cop. But he went down the same old road of a black man is probably up to no good…even in his own home. This is what the President was saying…this is what the cops can’t admit.
I was pulled over for a broken headlight one night. I told the cop he was wasting his time because it had a short and no matter how many times I fixed the light it went out. He pulled me out of the car and accused me of drinking. He made me take a sobriety test. I was a sober as s judge but I knew that because I was driving an old car in an upscale neighborhood and had dared to talk back that I was at his mercy. He could make a DUI stick to the point where I would be out thousands of dollars. Ok. Was he stupid? No. He just went down the old car and guy who talks back must be a bad guy road. Continue reading President Obama and the “stupid” police
July 24, 2009
Innocent until proven guilty is the way the system was set up. It was a direct reaction against the British who assumed the colonials were all guilty of something; sedition, treason, bad judgement in being a colonial, bad taste, not being of the upper class. So we created a judicial system that was designed to protect the citizen against an unfair ruling power that could just clap people in jail with the assumption of guilt. The courts know this very well, the problem in this country is someone forgot to tell the police.
So now we have Professor Gates. I couldn’t even imagine what being black is like in this country, but it is no surprise the cop arrested him with the suspicion he was up to no good. He was investigating a breaking and entering and knocked on the Professors door and demanded to see identification. “Why, because I’m a black man,” Gates responded. Now I can tell you now he was doomed. He had talked back to the almighty police. Once you do that you are done. We have all been there. They will find something to pin on you. Continue reading Guilty Until Proven Innocent–Our Police State
July 21, 2009
One of the reasons I take pleasure in writing here is the title: speak without interruption. You as the reader/viewer have the right not to read this, not to like this, and not to post a response. But I can write about a myriad of things that mean a great deal to me and at the top of the list is the black experience, what some like to call the African American experience. This is one of those posts where I remind you how far we have to go in making that experience something we all share with pride. And by all of us I mean everyone man woman and child of every color. Continue reading The Color of Race
July 19, 2009
Most people do not think of Harlem, New York City, as a center of literary promise. Even those familiar with the Harlem Renaissance can not usually fathom it as a present day place rich in culture that contains any kind of literature. But Saturday was the street fair portion of the annual Harlem Book and for two long blocks the main theme was books.
It was my second year sitting at the table with fellow members of the Harlem Writers Guild, the oldest black literary organization in the country. While we sold books written by members of the Guild we got to view and visit other tables to see the latest in what is affectionately called urban literature as well as books by up and coming poets, playwrights and authors. There were several tables that catered to children books some pure fiction, some on black history, each with phenomal art work. There were self help books- everything from how to get rid of him to how to eat correctly. And there were art books big and small. Almost everything by African American authors. Continue reading Harlem as Book Country
July 3, 2009
There are things I remember about United States history because my parents pointed them out to me when I was old enough to notice there was something lacking in the experience of being an American for people of my hue. While politicians of color were few and far between when I was in high school in the 1960′s there was enough history of African Americans proudly doing for this country to make celebrating the Fourth of July worthwhile. This will be our first fourth with a president of color in the Oval Office. It will be another piece of history to add to my independence.
I am not about to extol the African Americans who came before me, this is not that kind of history lesson. From Cripus Attachs to Dorie Miller, from Sojourner Truth to the mother of Emmett Till the road to freedom has been laid by more greats of color than these few. If you know a fraction of the history of this country you should know these names. I want to speak from where I sit.as an African American woman. And I sit proudly. Continue reading Independence Day from Where I Sit
June 26, 2009
He’s not there. Thats all we know. Rehearsing for the 50 shows he was going to do in London he worked himself probably to death. Cardiac arrest took away the self proclaimed King of Pop. You want to cry because he’s gone but you also want to cry because his life was so sad and so strange. We don’t expect our icons to die so young, and 50 is young. We don’t know what caused it but he’s gone and forever at peace. He left us behind.
But then he left us the music. Continue reading Remembering the Music of Michael Jackson
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The Great March
Tomorrow is the 47th Anniversary of the March on Washington. It is a significant date in the history of this country, August 28, 1963. Never before had so many American people, 300,000 or more, gathered in one place to lift in one voice of shared concern for “jobs, and freedom”, and equality for all Americans. Others have tried to duplicate the event and its success but this political rally organized by civil rights, labor, and religious organizations calling on all Americans in support of civil and economic rights for African-Americans, that took place in Washington, D.C, were Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech at the Lincoln Memorial would come to be known as “The Great March on Washington“.
At 6:30 the morning of August 28, 1963 my grandfather in Pennsylvania and my parents in New York City boarded two buses both bound for Washington in the District of Columbia. All three of them were journalist; all three were Americans of African decent; all three held great expectation, pride and there was a jubilant hope in their hearts. Continue reading The Great March